9 OGBONGE Reasons why African Women End up Single

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1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life
because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how
a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from
morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on
television to watch another celebrity entertainment
channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s
mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being
promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home
chores just because they had been totally brainwashed
by movies showcasing men playing the role of women
in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern
media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive
way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African
family setting that made our previous African marriages
everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with
this attitude, how do you expect a African man to
desire to marry when he knows he is
only buying more headache and trouble than helper for
himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-
minded men off- if you have observed, you will
discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and
more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times
discourage their true loved ones to do away with it
cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men
will applaud and complement you for looking like an
Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you
are out for marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-
minded, except you are still living in your high school
life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Joystick &
Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a
lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with
unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he
would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men
You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend
married without contributing anything to the man that
finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you
that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so
that you can be a value and also add value to his life
to convince him that you are worth committing to.
Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or
material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best
friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him
moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just
being a liability that only bring requests and problems
to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to
find a husband when you still allow your clique of
friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy
of your love and which is not? When will you wake up
and face the fact that those your best friends even
though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry
before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single
lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to
reserve some things for your husband to be, especially
your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the
past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or
privileges they had been constantly denied while being
single. Such privileges include and not limited to:
constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied
home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best
and of course more of constant sex, good food and
excellent home-keeping more than his married
counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to
desire to marry you when you have given him virtually
everything he desires from a wife while being his
girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he
knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex
supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries
you, so why would he not want you to remain his
girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to
look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you
have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you
look more whorish than modest; more distractive than
attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your
dressing style determines who gets attracted to you
most times. If you dress high school, only high
school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if
you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only
randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of
their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media
hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for
certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated
with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look
sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate
single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good
Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty
girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both
the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your
character and manner are the things that will
determine whether any of those men would stay or run
after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words,
do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging
with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a
man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has
used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today,
please do away with it.

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