LADIES -SIGNS TO TELL HE IS A POSSESSIVE MAN !!!!

There's a thin line between possessiveness and love. In
the beginning it seems really cute, you feel special as if
you have someone who can't live a moment without you,
as if you're the only girl in his life... So how can you tell
if he's being loving or controlling?

1. NO SPACE:

One of the first signs of possessiveness is that it curbs
your freedom. You will have no space whatsoever, for
yourself. Everything will be subjective to your boyfriend's
approval. Everyone has a little bit of insecurities and fears
in their hearts. But, giving them a right to dictate your life
is not a wise thing to do. If your boyfriend is intruding
your personal space because of his insecurities or fears,
then it is a clear sign of a possessive boyfriend.

2. HE ACCESSES YOUR SOCIAL NETWORKING
ACCOUNTS:

It's normal for two people in a relationship to access
each other's social website accounts. However,
possessive boyfriends go one step ahead and they start
ruling your cyber life. I know of a girl whose boyfriend
instructed her not to use social network at all, he went as
far as adding and deleting people from her account. He
calls it love I call it freaky!

3. HE FEELS JEALOUS OF YOUR MALE FRIENDS:

We all have a mixture of male and female friends but a
possessive boyfriend will look at the guys as competitors
and feel jealous of them. He can go to any extent to
ensure that you don't spend time with them even if you
have female friends with you.

4. HE ASKS A LOT OF QUESTIONS:

Possessive boyfriends are often interrogative, very
interrogative. He will ask you questions about your
whereabouts, your male friends and the people you go
out with. Interrogation is his way of making sure you
don't hang out with guys or other people he doesn't like.
He suspects everything you tell him and asks the same
questions numerous times to validate the truth.

5.HE IS OBSESSIVE ABOUT STAYING IN TOUCH WITH
YOU:

Some boyfriends stay in touch with their girlfriends
because they genuinely want to stay in touch whereas
others want constant information about every relevant
and irrelevant detail in their girlfriend's life. A possessive
boyfriend will get annoyed and even mad at you if he
can't reach you, if your phone's turned off or if you don't
reply to his texts.

6.HE DOUBLE CHECKS EVERYTHING YOU SAY:

Possessive guys aren't the kind to believe you easily.
They will doubt everything you tell them. Your guy is
possessive (and not in a good way) if he double checks
everything you tell him. For example, if you tell him that
you are going over to your parent's house, he will call
your parents instead of you to make sure you've reached
and tell you that your phone was switched off even
though you know it wasn't. Or, he might go to the extent
of spying on you to make sure you don't hang around
with any guys.

7.HE IS INSECURE ABOUT YOUR POPULARITY:

Possessive guys are basically insecure about themselves
on a certain level. They feel threatened at every step. If
your guy is possessive, he might feel jealous or insecure
about your popularity and he might even try to make you
unpopular to boost his self esteem.

8.HE CHECKS YOUR PHONE DAILY:

Another common trait observed amongst possessive
guys is their constant desire to check your phone to
make sure you don't message guys or say something
negative about him to your friends. A possessive
boyfriend might even accuse you of cheating on him
whenever he sees you with a guy!

So is it really love?

Credits: Dsuperwoman