Thursday 12 December 2013

9 Things Women Should Never Do To / Tell a Man

There are a number of things that you should never
tell a man if you would like to have a good dating
relationship with him. Let us take a look at them so
that you can avoid them.

1. Being the first to say “I love you.” You may say
this as a way of making him say that he loves you
too, but you should not try to push him to say
something he is not yet prepared for. You will remain
in an awkward position when he does not do it.

2. If he promised to call but didn’t, don’t confront him
and ask why he did not call. You will be basically
accusing him of not caring for you, and it is more
likely that you will make him turn defensive.

3. When you go out on a date, do not press him to
tell you when you should expect to see him once
more. If he is really interested, he will get in touch. On
the other hand, if he has no interest, then you should
not keep your life on hold for him.

4. In case he does not keep his promise to see you,
you should not ask him where he had been. The
hidden question is really whether he was out with
another girl, which will just show your fear and
insecurity.

5. In case he had gone out with another woman, you
will simply put both of you in an uncomfortable
position when you ask him whether he went to bed
with her. Even if he did, he is not doing it now.

6. Whether you have just started going out with a guy
or you have dated for some time, do not press him
with the question as to where your relationship is
going. If the relationship is promising, you will simply
know this from his actions.

7. If you have something you would like to discuss
with him, bring it up casually at an appropriate time.
When you tell him that you would like to have a talk,
he will automatically become defensive as he does not
expect the conversation to be enjoyable. You just
need to choose your time well.

8. However much he has hurt you, going around
stating how you have him won’t solve the issue. In
fact, when you maintain your cool even during a
breakup, you will win his admiration. But throwing
temper tantrums will only push him further away from
you.

9. In case you suspect that he has been up to no
good, telling him that you don’t trust him won’t make
him change. Instead, he will just get more careful, and
you won’t be able to get the much needed evidence.

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